During meetups, I share my cell number hoping to have casual offline to explore mutual technical interests. But some of them prefer setting up meeting. I am all for meeting when the project engagement is full swing, but first few meeting?? Is life so clockwork to some? Or they have too many things going on that unless it is in schedule (calendly/zoom), the meeting would never happen? In that case, is it even worth meeting, given that the other person may have too many irons in the fire that I may not even be prioritized?
